After Karen passed away in February 2021, I didn’t want to
think about returning to dating for at least a year. Since early 2022 I have grappled with this. A month or so ago I joined the dating app on
Facebook which is free. I composed a profile
and waited to see what would happen. After a few women clicked on my profile a
chat ensued. Usually after a few
messages the chat died. They call this
ghosting as the person disappears. There
were some matches where the woman lived far away. Compatibility cannot be
established by looking at photos and a list of interests. I don’t want to
travel to eastern Long Island or New Jersey and for an initial date that doesn’t
work out. When I was in college there
were many dates that did not work out. I
don’t want to go through that experience again.
So far, my involvement in dating apps has been disappointing. Getting involved in dating again might just complicate my situation.
You never know what could happen. My nephew met his
wife on JDate as they were both interested in running. For now, at least I don’t want to get
involved in dating.
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