I want to go to the older adult centers to derive enjoyment,
but this endeavor has failed for me. By
the way, an older adult is a euphemism for senior citizen. I can be derisive and call them old farts or
to use the Yiddish expression alta cocker.
Most of my experiences have been disappointing. This organization has locations in Little
Neck, Bayside, and Forest Hills. At
first, I went to the Little Neck Center which had discussion groups. I attended three groups for a few months. The problem was that often a few people
monopolized the conversation, and I just couldn't get a word in edgewise. Other times, the topic at hand was not of
interest to me. I thought the social
workers who led the group should have done a better job at moderating. Out of disgust, I stopped going.
After a few months I started to go to the groups at the Bayside
location. I was especially interested in
the trivia group they had there. There
were also other discussion groups. I
thought the social worker there was more personable and the smaller groups were
allowed for more equal participation.
The groups were alright for a while, but then people complained about various issues. Why must I listen
to a woman talking about her medical ailments and bitching about her insurance
company? Another woman related a sob
story in her family. I observe that
there is a rift between the men and women coming. I’m not going there to get a date, but I wish
the people would be friendlier.
I will continue to go to the trivia group, but likely I
will never go to the discussion groups and feel frustrated and saddened by what
transpires. I would be happier staying
home and reading a good book.
