I previously reported on my unhappiness with a discussion group at a local senior center. I asked the people there if they can start a group for men only. They accepted my suggestion and started a group that meets on Friday mornings. The same problems that I faced with two other groups exist in this men's group.
- A few people domineer the group
- I am just listening to other people's small talk.
Last Friday a gentleman complained that his hearing aid didn't work after his barber accidentally sprayed water into his ear.
Another man related a story where his girlfriend who worked in a nail salon was not paid.
I think the social worker who moderates the group should:
- Ensure that everyone who wants to talk should have the opportunity.
- The topic at hand should be of interest to the majority of participants.
I think that complaining will not do any good. I just have to evaluate whether I should come again. If I am not enjoying myself, I am only punishing myself for coming.
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