Saturday, June 14, 2025
The Beach Boys - That's Why God Made the Radio
Thursday, June 12, 2025
Mets 5 Nationals 0 as David Peterson Pitches a Complete Game Shutout
Wednesday, June 11, 2025
Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys Passes Away at 82
Monday, June 9, 2025
Random Thoughts of the Day June 9, 2025
- I was thinking about shopping for a new air conditioner this afternoon, but I was tired after doing the laundry and some house cleaning. I'll try to do it tomorrow as there is no big hurry, I assume I'll have to wait for delivery and installation anyway.
- Young women find me on Telegram. Now, I just ignore them, and they'll go away. You never know when the friendly chat will turn into a romance scam. I learned my lesson.
- I belong to a Facebook Group called Jewish Singles 65+. Within this group, there was a side chat for people in NYC. Last Saturday, the group had a luncheon in a restaurant in the Theater District. I was the only man among 6 women. I did feel a lititle uncomfortable, but it reminded my days working in a pharmaceutical company library from 1979-82 when I was the only man in the department. Now they are chatting about holding a brunch later this summer.
Sunday, June 8, 2025
I am a Bob Dylan Fan but Certainly Appreciate the Writings of the Scholars
Saturday, June 7, 2025
Two Air Conditioners Broke Down on the First Hot Day of the Season
Thursday, June 5, 2025
Treat Her Right by Roy Head - Random Oldie as I Have Writer's Cramp
Tuesday, June 3, 2025
Soul Makossa by Manu Dibango - Oldie of the Day
Sunday, June 1, 2025
Mets 5 Rockies 3
- Pete Alonso
- Francisco Lindor - the Mets have won the last 28 games, including the 2024 postseason, when Lindor homers.
- Juan Soto
- Tyler Freeman
Saturday, May 31, 2025
Mission Impossible Final Reckoning at the AMC Bay Terrace 6
Friday, May 30, 2025
Reportedly, Bob Dylan Will release a Final Farewell Album
Thursday, May 29, 2025
Ghosbusters Theme from the Movie Inspired Me to Write About Ghosting
- Connie found me on Facebook, stating she would like to friend me since she found my postings interesting. You never know when people are telling the truth, but she said was in the U.S. Army and was stationed in Syria. Since she could not use her credit card until she returned to the USA, she asked me to buy a Steam Card for her. When I refused, she ghosted me. Several months later, she tried to friend me on Facebook with the name Tessa. I recognized her picture. I didn't fall for it this time.
- Carolyn friended me on Facebook. She lost her husband and had a five-year-old son. She moved the chat to WhatsApp.After flattering me for several days, she said she needed money to pay her rent. Like a fool, I gave her a small amount. A few days later, she insisted she needed more money. I ghosted her, but about 6 months later, she chatted with me again for a day and then ghosted me permanently. Never send anyone money. This is the Romance Scam.
- Allyson also friended me on Facebook. Like Carolyn, she started to flatter me after telling me she had lost her husband. After she said wasn't working, I suspected something. Sure enough, she cried that she could she couldn't feed her children and begged me for money. I learned my lesson, and goodbye. This was another Romance Scam
- A few Asian women found my account on Telegram and started to chat with me. In all cases, they had good jobs, so I knew these would not be romance scams. Cindy was from San Francisco and even told me I could stay at her house if I came to her city. After a while, she talked about investments. When I said I wasn't interested, she ghosted me. Apparently, she friended me to try to do financial business with her. Gina lived in St. Petersburg, Florida and kept sending me pictures. One day, she said she was in church and prayed that our relationship would last forever. A few days later, she ghosted me. They say one thing and do the opposite. It reminds me of a library manager I once knew.
Tuesday, May 27, 2025
My Misadventure with a Dating App
About a
year after Karen passed away, I started to think about returning to
dating. There were two basic issues:
- ·
Finding
someone
- ·
Will
a date become a relationship, and then something serious
I dreaded
those miserable singles dances back in the late 60s and 70s. We jokingly called them “meat markets” where
the meat was kosher. I met several young
ladies at dances back then.
First
dates were often difficult for me as I had trouble initiating a conversation
with a new person. Sometimes, I thought
a first date went well, but when I asked for a second date the young lady would
reply “I’m busy.” Other times a
relationship would fizzle out after a few dates.
I was
reluctant to face those issues decades later.
In 2023 I dabbled with dating apps.
I had a Facetime chat with one woman, but I decided not to pursue it.
Very
recently, I decided to try dating apps again.
I thought it would be nice to have some female companionship four years
after I lost Karen. I signed up with
JDate a service for Jewish singles. I
decided to sign up for just one month to see if it was worth it. I filled out the questionnaire and posted my
profile. I stated I only wanted matches
25 miles or less from home. Most of the
matches were from places such as Massachusetts, Maryland, and Virginia, more
than 200 miles away. I contacted a few
from NYC, but they never responded. That
is fair game.
For the
next three weeks I got no new matches and thought of cancelling my membership
at the end of the month. All of a sudden I
got a slew of potential matches, including New Jersey and Long Island. I thought to myself, do I really want to
travel a long distance for a date? I am
not desperate to find someone. I
remember in 1969 when I had a date in the Bronx, my father remarked, aren’t
there enough girls in Queens. That date
didn’t work out anyway.
I did
connect with a woman named Joan whose profile said she was in NYC. We started to chat within the dating app for
a while and then she asked for my email and suggested we communicate that
way. A little while later, her JDate
profile disappeared.
In one of
her emails, she said:
I value
sincerity, and I'm seeking a genuine, romantic, and fulfilling relationship. I
am down-to-earth, honest, non-judgmental, and giving in my relationships and
intimacy. My heart is big, and my personality is warm and caring. I’m someone
who truly wants to experience love in its fullest sense. I am sociable,
outgoing, and well-balanced in my life. My character is grounded in the belief
of giving everyone a fair chance.
After a
few more emails I suggested we have a video chat or meet at a neutral location
for a face-to-face meeting. Her
response:
As for
meeting in person, I appreciate your suggestion about a neutral location.
That's a good point! I live in Ocala Florida . Since you live in
Flushing, Queens, if we're both comfortable with traveling, we could
potentially meet somewhere in the middle or a place that's convenient for both
of us
I think
this qualifies for an “Oy Vey.” She said
she values sincerity, but why did she say in her profile that she was in NYC
while she actually lives in Florida. Am
I really going to travel to Florida to meet a woman?
This was
her last communication with me:
Let's
discuss the video chat over the next weekend but we can continue sharing
emails and see how that goes. If we both feel comfortable, we can then
plan an in-person meeting at a neutral spot. What are your thoughts on this
approach?
I decided
to stop communicating with her. Long-distance relationships rarely work out, especially when they begin as a long-distance
situation. If she sends me an email, I’ll politely say that this won't work out.
I also
decided to end my subscription to JDate since it was creating too much anxiety
for me.
My nephew
in California met his wife through JDate, so dating apps do work.
Monday, May 26, 2025
Mets 3 Dodgers 1 on Memorial Day Weekend
When we arrived home, we were able to catch the end of Game 3 of the Knicks—Pacers series. The Knicks came from behind to win 106-100.
Saturday, May 24, 2025
Random Thoughts about Bob Dylan on His 84th Birthday
- At age 84 he is still touring. He must really enjoy it as he obviously does not need the money. Tonight he will be playing in Ridgefield, Washington. I assume that many of my Dylan fan friends will be there. They will either sing or hold placards wishing him a happy birthday. I doubt if Bob will acknowledge them.
- There are Dylan fans who travel around the world to see his concerts. For me, once a year is enough. I will see him at Jones Beach on August 1.
- On Substack, writers and creators can publish their work and profit from paid subscriptions. I just refuse to pay to read people's thoughts on Dylan. There is enough free stuff to read. I do subscribe to Bob Dylan Isis magazine. How much can you read about him?
- I attended the World of Dylan symposium in Tulsa in 2019. There was a mix of fans and scholars. I also attended the 2021 conference, which was completely online during the COVID pandemic. I was told the attendance at the 2023 meeting was lower than the one in 2019. I am not going to the one this coming July since it will too scholarly for me. I did visit Tulsa again in 2022 to see the Bob Dylan Center.
- I run an online video meeting every month.
Wednesday, May 21, 2025
Gimme Little Sign by Brenton Wood - Oldie of the Day
Monday, May 19, 2025
The Rick Nelson - Bob Dylan Connection
Sunday, May 18, 2025
Another Evening at Flushing Town Hall: Global Mashup: Middle Eastern Rock Meets Western Swing.
The first group was Chogan, a Middle Eastern rock band founded by Mehrnam Rastegari, a master kamancheh player, composer, and singer. With her original compositions, she celebrates the rich cultural heritage of the Middle East while blending it seamlessly with the universal energy of rock music, delivering a sound that is both deeply rooted and refreshingly.
Queen Esther fronted the second group. She was raised in Atlanta and rooted in Charleston’s Lowcountry traditions; her work fuses Black Southern heritage with Americana, blues, jazz, and alt-country, creating a rich, reclamation-driven soundscape.
It is nice to do something different on a Saturday night. On early Sunday afternoon, I am listening to the recording of Cousin Brucie's radio show.
Friday, May 16, 2025
Thank Goodness I Don't Have to Cope with a New Jersey Transit Strike
Thursday, May 15, 2025
Trying to Juggle Jeopardy, the Knicks, and the Mets Last Night
- Regular Jeopardy 7 PM
- Wheel of Fortune 7:30 PM
- Celebrity Wheel of Fortune 8 PM (we recorded this on the DVR)
- Mets vs Pittsburgh 7 PM
- Knicks vs Celtics 7 PM
- Jeopardy Masters 9 PM
Tuesday, May 13, 2025
Is Chronicles Volume II - An Autobiography of Bob Dylan Being Released Soon?
Sunday, May 11, 2025
Mets 6 Cubs 2 on Mother's Day at Citi Field
Saturday, May 10, 2025
It's Alright by Adam Faith - Random One-Hit Wonder of the Day
Thursday, May 8, 2025
In the Last Week I Got Two Final Jeopardy Questions Correct While All 3 Contestants Miss
Tuesday, May 6, 2025
Rainy Days and Mondays [Tuesdays Too] by the Carpenters
Sunday, May 4, 2025
No More Bagels in My Immediate Neighborhood
Friday, May 2, 2025
It is Sad that the President Signed an Executive Order to End Federal Funding for NPR and PBS
- The current president is overusing Executive Orders. He thinks he can do whatever he wants without consulting Congress.
- He perceives the news on NPR and PBS stations is biased against him. I believe they are objective and present all sides of the issues.
- Music and cultural programming on these stations will be adversely affected.
- I am a sustaining member of WFUV, WBGO, and WNET (TV). They will be more aggressive in their fundraising in the future, which is understandable.
- I hope that the quality of their programs will not suffer.
Wednesday, April 30, 2025
Mets 8 Diamondbacks 3
Tuesday, April 29, 2025
Happy 92nd Birthday to Willie Nelson
Sunday, April 27, 2025
Where the Action Is (Was) - A Follow Up on a Journal Entry from 2011
Saturday, April 26, 2025
Chicago the Musical at the Ambassador Theater
Friday, April 25, 2025
Oy Vey - A Man Was Fatally Stabbed for Stepping on Toes in the NYC Subway
Wednesday, April 23, 2025
Don't Think Twice by Eric Clapton - One of My Favorite Dylan Covers
Monday, April 21, 2025
Still Crazy After All These 76 Years
Sunday, April 20, 2025
Mets Defeat Cardinals 7-4 to Complete a 4-Game Sweep
Saturday, April 19, 2025
Today is the 60th Anniversary of All-News on 1010 WINS
Thursday, April 17, 2025
One Program Providing Virus Protection is Enough
On April 10th, I described my problems in reinstalling Microsoft 365. After two people from Microsoft couldn't solve my problem, I was referred to a Tier 2 support person. I had to wait a week for this person to contact me, so I had to use a free version of Microsoft Word in the meantime. Finally, today the person contacted me by phone and determined that the problem was caused by my having more than one virus protection programs on my computer. After we deleted the two unnecessary programs, I was able to reinstall Microsoft 365. As an added bonus, my computer worked much faster. It turned out that the programs were interfering with each other.
All's well that ends well.
Wednesday, April 16, 2025
Wink Martindale Was Also a Radio Personality
Tuesday, April 15, 2025
Today is Jackie Robinson Day in Major League Baseball
Sunday, April 13, 2025
I Only Have Eyes for You - Flamingos and Art Garfunkel Versions -Which is Your Favorite
I just listened to a radio interview with Art Garfunkel on BBC2. Please access this within a month since it will be taken offline. I Only Have Eyes for You by the Flamingos was popular with listeners of WCBS-FM back when the station played the hits of the 1950s. I also liked the version by Art Garfunkel that appeared on his Breakaway album. Which is your favorite?
Friday, April 11, 2025
Another Chat Relationship Ends Abruptly - No More for Me!
Remembering Lenny Welch (1938-2025)
Thursday, April 10, 2025
Adventures with Microsoft 365
I have had Microsoft 365 for years. It includes Word, Excel, and Powerpoint among other programs. Suddenly, when I opened the program, it said I had an unlicensed version. I tried by myself to rectify it and couldn't. I contacted help at Microsoft, and two consultants still couldn't fix it. Even uninstalling and reinstalling it didn't fix the problem The second person referred me to a Tier 2 support person, but I had to make an appointment for next Thursday, April 17. I have already spent several hours on this.
I usually use those programs for my work for SABR (Society for American Baseball Research). In the meantime, I'll have to use Google Docs and Google Sheets, but their features are limited. There is also a free version of MS Word, but that too is limited in its capabilities.
In the 1980s when I worked at NYPL I used WordPerfect which dominated the market when PC-DOS was the operating system. I found out that it still exists, but its market share must be very small.
Tuesday, April 8, 2025
Sunday, April 6, 2025
Mets 2 Blue Jays 1
Friday, April 4, 2025
Mets 5 Blue Jays 0 in Home Opener at Citi Field
Our 20-game package included Opening Day at Citi Field. Before the game Ed Kranepool who passed away last September was honored. The players will wear a patch with Ed's #7 on their uniforms this season. Al Leiter & John Franco, teammates of the 2000 NL Pennant-winning Mets and Bartolo Colón & Juan Lagares, teammates of the 2015 NL Pennant-winning Mets, each threw out the first pitch today.
Francisco Lindor led off the game with a double after the sell-out crowd serenaded him with My Girl recorded initially by the Temptations Two batters later Pete Alonso hit a two-run homer. The Mets rallied for three runs in the 6th inning with doubles by Juan Soto and Brandon Nimmo.
Tylor Megill pitched 5 1/3 innings of shutout baseball and was relieved by Reed Garrett, A.J. Minter, and Max Kranick who shut the door on the Blue Jays.
Thursday, April 3, 2025
There is a Johnny Tillotson - Bob Dylan Connection with Blowin' in the Wind
Sadly many of the artists of the golden oldies era have passed away. Yesterday we heard of the passing of Johnny Tillotson at age 86. Most of his hits including Poetry in Motion and Talk Back Trembling Hits charted in the early 1960s. Leave it to me to find a connection to Bob Dylan as Johnny covered Blowin' in the Wind.
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
April Fools Day With Bob Dylan
Mike Riccio, the moderator of the Oldies Message Board compiled a list of the Top 20 "Fool" songs based on the weekly Billboard Hot 100 lists through 1990:
1. "Everybody's Somebody's Fool," Connie Francis (1960)
2. "Poor Little Fool," Ricky Nelson (1958)
3. "What a Fool Believes," Doobie Brothers (1979)
4. "Foolish Beat," Debbie Gibson (1988)
5. "Chain of Fools," Aretha Franklin (1968)
6. "Fooled Around and Fell in Love," Elvin Bishop (1976)
7. "Why Do Fools Fall in Love," the Teenagers featuring Frankie Lymon (1956)
8. "Fool #1," Brenda Lee (1961)
9. "(Now and Then) There's a Fool Such as I," Elvis Presley (1959)
10. "Everybody Plays the Fool," Main Ingredient (1972)
11. "The Fool," Sanford Clark (1956)
12. "Why Do Fools Fall in Love," Diana Ross (1981)
13. "Foolish Little Girl," the Shirelles (1963)
14. "She's a Fool," Lesley Gore (1963)
15. "The Fool on the Hill," Sergio Mendes & Brasil '66 (1968)
16. "(Fool) If You Think It's Over," Chris Rea (1978)
17. "Nobody's Fool," Kenny Loggins (1988)
18. "Kissing a Fool," George Michael (1988)
19. "What Kind of Fool," Barbra Streisand & Barry Gibb (1981)
20. "Fools Rush In," Rick Nelson (1963)
Bob Dylan covered Elvis Presly's (Now and Then) There's a Fool Such as I on the Basement Tapes.
Sunday, March 30, 2025
Lee and I Saw Hell's Kitchen on Broadway
We enjoyed the music and the dancing in the show. Afterward, we stopped by the Hard Rock Cafe in Times Square, but as usual, it was very busy. Instead we ate dinner at Applebees.
Saturday, March 29, 2025
NYC Casey Stengel Chapter of SABR meeting in Midtown Manhattan
- The Pulse of New York Baseball: Present and Past featuring:
- Laura Albanese - writer for Long Island Newsday
- Billy Altman official scorer and former baseball beat writer for the Village Voice
- Anthony McCarron is a freelance writer who has appeared in Baseball Digest and MLB.com. and others
- Met Stories I Only Tell My Friends and Other First-Hand Baseball Stories
- Art Shamsky - Member of the 1969 Mets
- Matthew Silverman - author of several baseball books
- Marty Appel - another author of baseball books who was also an executive with the Yankees
Friday, March 28, 2025
Happy 37th Birthday Lee